Each person is free to live life at their own pace and the only thing you can ask and hope for is that they do so without harming anyone.
Do you know the Japanese legend of bamboo? How is it possible that bamboo takes 7 years to germinate and in only 6 weeks it reaches a height of 30 meters? Simple)) During the 7 years, the bamboo is evolving, generating a complex root system that allows it to grow so tall.
What do we learn? Sometimes our effort is great and we expect a result proportional to our commitment and courage. Many times, however, the result is invisible to our eyes but only because the roots are forming and then rewarding us in the best possible way. With dedication and constant work and without ever giving up, one day we will have great results and our tall bamboo.